Festival of Durgapooja/Dashara

Durgapooja/Dashara festival is over & we are waiting for Dewali festival in the current month.What we experienced in this festivals are hike in expenditure,making of new garments,consumption of increased diet,frequent and long use of conveyance,augumenting our jovial mood,increase in frequency of laughter,admiration,love & devotion to some extent of religeous stint.As also submission of conditional and unconditional prayer to GOD.Now we are satisfied our self & our valuable moral for another ensuing year to reach & attend a digital goal & be happy.

Mythological Ethics

I am from a joint family consisting of atleast 25 members headed by my grandfather & grandmother.Since my childhood began about morethan 60 years ago,the family atmosphere was much different from the present nucleous family status.In early in the morning when the golden rays of the rising sun started to throw colour in the sky we used to listen musical hymn by eldest member of the family citing Hare Rama Hare Krishna.As I become started to get older I gradually acquainted with Rama & Krishna.Now what I learnt from the epics of Ramayana & Mahabharata,it requires time & space to describe.But in nutshell to describe (i) one should be sincere so that the promise made by his father may be kept & for that efforts may be made(ii) one should love his brother and accompany and assist him while he is in distress(iii) wives must accompany her husband to go with him to his destination but while doing so she should take care to protect herself and also the husband.(iv)Shreemati Radha Devi offered splendid of unconditional love to Lord Krishna & vice versa and every one should learn to extend the phenomennon of love in the surroundings and not to demand any lusture.

Jealousy is an human ornament

Since my childhood I could recognise the people around me who had a different throw of looks which were deviating from the normal throw of looks.When I became adult then only I was able to recognise the people who had such behavioural thinking asalso looks of different attitudanal,uncoperative behaviour. Ofcourse I was rather compelled to confront with the term Jealous. Interestingly with days I was geting older & older I observed that this type of human sentimental behaviour of envying and resenting another's success or suspiciously protecting a relationship to go or stretched further was existed not only inbetween friends butalso very very close relatives and even between husband and wife what to say also amongst beloved

sons & daughters .Whereas people while worshiping the Almighty GOD also shows the jealous attitude while praying something for someone or different people. I,therefore,have become convinced that Jealousy may be a psychologically defined state of mind but better if I define it as an ornament to the human behaviour which some or many people utilises for decorating themeselves.

Relationship Management

Relationship management has become very very important these days.This is in relation to workplace colleague, friends or near & distant relatives..Although there have been invention of so many tools & systems as regards maintenance of communication but adhering to that system or get support out of that in the matter is not focussed in individual mind or sense & are not utilised to bring pleasure in one self nor in the societyas a whole.As such in our recent cosmetic atmosphere we must improvise in the area of relation management adequately in a pleasant manner to make our living harmonius.

Every morning when Sun rises & chirping of birds creates musical hymn in my mind,I remember my childhood & the place where I was broughtup within the sphere of cordial relationship.And in the night before leaving for bed I compelled to assess my self & behaviour whether I have been capable of rendering affection to that magnitude to all who live with me & in my surrounding. I donot know when & wherefrom to get answer.